Who Is She?

When you envision the future version of yourself—the woman living the life you dream of—what does that life look like?

Getting clear on who she is and what her day-to-day life looks like is the first step in making that dream a reality. Embodying that version of yourself is the second. Think of this like plugging an address into your phone for directions. You set the destination and are given different route options. When you tell the Universe where you’re going and take steps in that direction, you’ll be amazed by the circumstances that unfold for you. On the other hand, wandering aimlessly—wanting things to change but feeling stuck—keeps you in the same place. Without a clear destination and action, there is no change.

But here’s the good news: it’s easy to change the trajectory of your life and redirect it in any way you choose. And while we’re talking about choices, let’s stress the importance of giving yourself the grace to change your mind. You don’t have to stick with a choice forever. Changing your mind is not only okay but often necessary as you grow.

Once you start your journey, you might find that things you initially wanted no longer align with where you’re headed. Don’t force yourself down a path that feels wrong just because you think you’re "supposed" to. This only pulls you out of alignment with your true desires. Be honest with yourself, allow space for growth and change, and keep your eyes on your destination.

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Get Clear on Who She Is

Take time to define every detail about your future self:

• What does she wear?
• What does she eat?
• Who does she spend time with?
• What are her hobbies?

Start making decisions from this place. Begin incorporating elements of the life you want into your current reality. As you embody her, bit by bit, you’ll feel the energy shift, and it will seem like things are magically falling into place. Over time, you’ll realize that the things you envisioned are becoming your reality. As you step into her energy, the Universe will respond, bridging the gap between where you are now and where you’re going.

Take Action

Define your vision clearly and start embodying that version of yourself. Remember, this process should feel fun and enjoyable, not forced. If it feels overwhelming, step back and revisit it later.

Here are some simple examples:

• Future you always has her nails painted? Paint your nails!
• Future you exercises every morning? Start with light stretching and gradually add workouts as you’re ready.
• Future you reads a book a month? Commit to reading 5 pages or 15 minutes a day to build the habit.
• Future you carries herself with confidence and loves who she is? Cultivate a positive mindset, actively acknowledge your accomplishments, take care of yourself physically and mentally.This has been one of the BIGGEST struggles for me, and it takes commitment, along with reminding and realigning myself daily of who I am. That confident and self assured version of me. The one who is worthy of all I dream of. So, if this is difficult, know there is nothing "wrong" with you. It's years of conditioning, betrayal, diminishing, etc. All of those instances, if even for a split second, made you feel small or less than, they all add up. Be patient with yourself and give yourself grace. Check out Wickedly Worthy Witches, a bundle designed to help you overcome self-doubt, insecurity, and unworthiness.

The key is to align your actions with your true desires and values, not based on what others say life should look like. This is your dream, your life, and you have the power to create it. Tapping into this creative force within you is one of the most empowering feelings ever!

Start Dreaming Big

Don’t hold back; allow yourself to dream big. Let the vision flow naturally. It might not all come at once, but once you open yourself to possibility, ideas will follow, and the opportunities will feel limitless.

There are worksheets available to guide you in defining what your future life looks and feels like. That feeling is the heart of manifestation. Ask yourself:

• How will you feel when it’s all a reality?
• How will you feel about your body, finances, job, and relationships?

Emotions are key to manifestation. If you feel joy and happiness, you’ll attract more of the same. If you consistently feel negative emotions, you’re likely to draw in similar experiences. When figuring out your destination, focus on the emotions you’ll experience once you’ve arrived.

Embody the Feeling

When you can tap into how it feels to be her, you’re already on your way to becoming her.

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